Simplexity of Human – by Mohammed Ali

                      

We are amazing creatures simple and complex at the same time, it’s hard to describe how the human pattern works in a sentence or even an article. We are so beautiful by all sense, measurers and standards. Given to these characteristics, we get a new feature which is the difference; on colors, tallness, ages, gender, sexual orientation, religions and culture backgrounds. This is the fundamental composition to build a personality for any one of us in general. 

Living in groups with that’s characteristics creates a life standardizations related to mono-form of the life of that group, Including as follows ‘’ Food, Ceremonies, Traditional … etc. and then everyone begins to evaluate life events through his perspective as right, wrong or normal.

I was one of those who have started to evaluate things subconsciously and it was discrimination no more, why? Because most of it wasn’t in my normalization list so spontaneously I rejected it, I figured out I don’t know something else out of my lifestyle and I afraid of change. Change from our Holy Standard without discovering, reading or listening only sometime. So, what we needs exactly is a chance to our self and to other, chance to learn by reading or listening and then to other until they have a chance to know; it may not be at the same time of yours, it could be after a while..

I can consider myself lucky because I have took this opportunity and completely changed my life, one of the reasons is traveling but not only, it’s the most faster way to change your point of view to this world, You may find people are different than you from various aspects or even you may find what it calls an “enemy” in back home, listen and talk to him/her, drink cup of coffee together eventually you will realize he/she is just human, a person with different standards Imbued with tradition and some external toxic effects like ’’ Media’’.

Always remember that ‘’ we have born perfect ’’ and you will never realize this at the Mosque, Church or Synagogue I advise you to visit a kindergarten unfortunately and you’ll know what I mean. So, this other simple way to rethink about what we have done on ourselves and there is more ways to figured out.

Keywords I have use it on my little experience:

1. Read: Nowadays is easy to get any information we want by different perspective also, so be aware about your source, you can learn a new language, read other holy books, cultures by watching movies listening to music .

2. Tolerant: First be tolerant of yourself, release yourself from the cage and accept others as they are, to be accepted, then put yourself on their position to understand exactly their points of view by this big step you can reduce the gaps that may fade.
   
3. Love: Ooh boy, this is the magical key I suggest you to try it, all the gaps it will vanish ,all the barriers  will disappears ,will ignite your positive energy and you’ll taste the life then pray for me, ‘’ By love we can have whatever we ask, by hate we can lose whatever we have’’.

4. Honesty: last not least this is a very important point if you succeed at least on this point you will remain human, because all the relationship based on honestly and truest even with ourselves, by lying you can destroy all what you have built in your life and yourself, is not shame to lose someone or being not acceptable, it can happened but losing your self-confidence by lie or cheating is difficult and hard to recover from it again.

• Simplicity of Human

If we apply all of the above with ease, it is the simplicity; just we have to work a little bit and adjust ourselves to reading, toleration, honesty and love. With love you can find yourself doing kindergarten’s things sometime and this is an indication that we are so simple but we need a chance.

• Complexity of Human 

Most of the complexity comes from surrounding environment that range from family and community to external influences and other circumstances; ex (War, political issues and historical backgrounds). Then all this circumstances can introduce some individual disease like ” arrogance, pride, shyness or it can be fear of change ’’ that’s why no one is perfect but we were, there is saying in Arabia region: ‘’Man is the son of his environment ‘’ but don’t be slave to it, free yourself, accept and enjoy the diversity of life, so we must work hard on ourselves to get rid of all these obstacles.

• Afterword

Hey Humans Let’s give ourselves a chance, if we are alive, there is always another chance. Before we die, let us make it real, and create a bright future with knowledge that we will erase ignorance, with tolerance and forgiveness, we will understand what love is?

LOVE YOU ALL

MOHAMED ALI

(Syrian Refugee)